You go to a celebrate and evaluate the girl to shake her hips and move for the maniac songs playing…you don’t mind if she takes one or two puffs…drinking is absolutely no problem in fact you cheer them up saying ” wow this is the first time I have seen a girl chug down a whole beer store”So what happens when its time for marriage?Virgin -of courseBoyfriends- No NoReligious-yesSmoking – No wayDrinking- please leave my houseIf you don’t do certain things and expect the same with your exceed half that’s understandable…But if that’s not the case…force itBunch of hypocrites
true.. it is hypocrisy when such guys do this. When i read the topic of your post "Why are Indian men so conservative?". I was expecting something on the conservativeness of "Indian men" and a disbelieve from your side as to what is the reason behind this.. but the end was "If you to don’t do certain things and expect the same with your exceed half that’s understandable..." which means u do understand the conservativeness of the conservative Indian men (phew!) and then "But if that’s not the inspect.. shove it".. the last one as u already pointed out is not conservativeness but hypocrisy :)romba ulariteno?! :D
Hello,I wish to say something on this post,though not a good writer. Nor a well learned man,Me just a small man in this small world doin some small work. But still,ur affix needs some real thing to go with. As a read it is very articulative and i anticipate i have something to share on this. The first part of shaking a leg i evaluate u comfort sight married women shaking a leg or two once in a while either in the arms of their husbands or their in one of those many family parties."you don’t object if she takes one or two puffs…drinking is absolutely no problem in fact you encourage them up saying ” wow this is the first time I have seen a girl chug down a whole beer bottle”",Now the above declare needs a bit of thinking cause when u have man who says this to or thinks like this towards his female interest then the disapprove in mind is very clearly known it is just to take a women to bed. But when i as a man am looking to unify its not tht i search for somebody perfect it is just tht since we are all slaves of this society we need certain qualities for a woman,I am not against women smoking or drinking nor i am with them too. In my own eyes i can smoke i can drink but a woman cant because we believe women as Pure caring loving and a smoking drinking woman would be very bad to visualise as the a women with the above said qualities. Men especiallz Indian men are pretty close to their mothers. They have grown up seeing their care hold the house together sacrifice her life for the happiness of her family and this is the beauty of India. I know this aint even a niche nearer to the say but this is good enough for a thought towards it i guess...!i think the virgnity air is desire gone from the minds of the indian men of the new and young india,but if it comfort exists and if u undergo come across,the cerebrate is the same as to why a married woman would get hyper when she knows her preserve is sleeping with another woman. Women are hyper sensitive. For men an affair means just the physical attraction. But when the same happens for a woman it is not just tht,it goes beoynd it. Their is an emotional bonding on the displace layer this layer makes it close to impossible to genreate a vibrant aura around the new relation. Again i know this is not the ameliorate say but in m eyes this is the truth. u once asked me how come i never commented u but had u on my blogroll,now u undergo a comment from me..--Shyam
ooh ooh... B'day babe.. ene ipdi oru affix... controversial be a potuta.. not sure what trigered u off.. yep i accept w/ u on these.. but.. few q's. why not just "Men" instead of indian men? ... anticipate even other men behave the same way but in a different level... and reg the marriage part. come up.. intha conditions la applicable to both genders thaaane?I dont evaluate a girl wud compromise on all those parameters b4 wed. and ellavanum apdi ille ma.. there r few expections.. la ;) ithellam panna koodathunu thadukra "men" ofcrse indian men um irukaanga ma... ;) Raz akka.. ungalukkum serthu thaan sollirukean...
Agree completely with Kavitha. We Indian Men ARE hypocrites. no doubts about it. And no justification is possible. Hopefully things change as we open up more to the new world and go out of the cocoon that we are living in. I am a man and it comfort pisses me off seeing how chauvinistic men are! I am a staunch feminist and accept that girls also have their own ways of looking at world. I despise men who say one thing and do the opposite. I have seen many friends of exploit comfort demanding dowry (yes... even in this new age!). just because he happens to work for some shitty software company (nope.... I have nothing against software companies. gratify). @anonymous.. cut the crap of "Women are pure caring sacrificial lambs" etc etc. The pureness of a woman and other qualities have absolutely nothing to do with whether they shake their hips or legs whether they drink or consume. In your logic it would mean that men are impure uncaring and selfish!Sorry Kavi for ranting. but this is one thing I am a staunch supporter of. Hypocrite men are simply NO NO in this age. And girls exceed be away from such brutes!
hey kavi.. athaan sonnen la they expect at a different level.. which be not be smokin or drinikin ;) n e ways kavs. naa onnum pesa mudiyathu nu nenaikren...... pasanga avlo damage panni vachrukaanunga ;) .. i've seen many ppl who do all stuff n wen it comes to wedding. get settled as a family peria buddhar maathri pesuvaanga...:)
Hi Kavitha (i wish this is ur real name). A very short cute and agreeable post. I agree with you whatever you have said BUT a small change. Of cover we do think the majority is on the MALE gender but don't you accept with me if i say there are quite a few in FEMALE as come up? Irrespective of the gender who does they should honestly be within and get out of it! - this is what i feel. I remember in the movie "Kaadhal Kottai'. Karan says a dialogue something similar to this post!Hats off!My best wishes for this post be a triggering factor for atleast a few who falls in that category!Cheers,Raghavan alias Saravanan M.
hey first and foremost sorry kavitha for not commenting on this post earlier. coz i didnt visit ur blog during this period i anticipate.. and naan paarthathu ur next post i e the diwali wishes one.. ippathan padikkiraenyou have a point in ur affix.. but dont u think it is not just the males but in general everyone who direct a different command for themselves and something altogether for ppl around them.... u are very alter when u label them as hypocrites :)
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